Bichon Frise

You run at low power and high warmth. What you want is uncomplicated — good company, a comfortable place, and for the people in the room to be at ease with each other — and you are willing to be flexible about almost everything else to get it. You are easy to be around in a way that people underrate until they spend time with someone who is not. Conflict genuinely costs you something physical, so you have become skilled at heading it off before it starts.

The weakness is that agreeableness has become a reflex rather than a choice, and reflexes cannot tell the difference between a small thing and an important one. You give ground automatically, and then find you are further from where you wanted to be than you can explain to anyone, including yourself. The resentment that builds has nowhere to go, because you were the one who said it was fine. Nothing improves here until you learn that one clearly stated objection, early, keeps far more peace than a year of accommodating does.